Saturday, November 27, 2010

People ... Sighhh ... !!!

I thought of cutting out on the introductions and getting to business because this is not my first blog and hence doesn't need the initial formalities ... But then again, this could the first one I decide to publish and make viewable to public ...

Well, about me , I am just a brick in the wall ... But ya , not the wall with normal bricks ...I mean by normal definitions of normal ... Which are not normal according to me and a few normal people I know and love , who are again , not normal by normal standards ... !!! Get the drift ...
Other than that, I do not think any more details are required ... bcos where I live and what I do not define me ... And what I like, dislike, believe in, would be talked about obviously in my blogs (* if I do write them and publish them *)... Whatever ...

The title of the blog makes it very obvious, that I am not a people person. (If any possible employers read this blog, FYI , I don't mean that I have bad communication skills or I can't interact with clients and all that ...On the contrary, I am pretty good at it, all humility aside ... References available on request ... ) What I mean is, I do not like interacting with people on a personal, or social level ...

Why is that so ? We don't like a lot of things, bcos we don't understand them ... Its the same logic for me not liking people. Of my 25 years on earth (now you know another detail about me :D ) I think I know at most 25 people I truly love/respect/can tolerate any given point in space and time ...
Scary ...

So what is it about them that sets them apart according to me? A lot of things ... To list a few ( without using bullets, please !!! )... Independence , not being clingy/needy/desperate for being accepted , having a set of firm beliefs, not being attention-seeking, respecting other people , ability to be sarcastic , witty , not sweet talking ( i detest such people most )... n loads more ...

So about the complement of the set of 25 ... well, the problem with them is that they are just , you know , people ... they will change to blend in , they will judge you if you are different from them, you know, with Peter Keating-ish traits ... I am not saying they are bad people ... They may be great human beings but they are just weird according to me ... And hence, they are temporaries and not constants in life ... ( temporary/constant nomenclature courtesy Mr.W)...

Obviously, this blog comes bcos of some temporaries I am thinking about ... And what always bugs me is their ability to affect me and my peace of mind ...
The one ray of light is that, well , they are temporary ... and will phase out sooner or later ...

I don't know if I made any sense at all, but hell, this is my place ... I can ramble about anything I want ... and in anyway I want ( I am obviously not writing an essay for skool ... * hint * : grammar police buzz off )...

Enuff for now , Adios ... ( I used to say "Cheers, rock on \m/ ", before Rock On came out , but after that quit it for fear of being labeled " wanna be " ... which reminds me, is one more category of people I absolutely detest ... More on that some other time ...)

Sney